No offense, but none of your explanations make any sense. Haha. I think my best option here, is to go to my dad. He seems to actually believe this is the One True Religion. I asked my mom about this, but she just shrugs her shoulders. She is going along with it all, but clearly has doubts.
Thank you Phizzy:
Make your JW show you how it is arrived at, don't interrupt during the explanation, just take notes. Then come back here to us and we will shred it. Or if you are happy to do so, tear it apart yourself.
It is simply not good enough for them to expect you to take stuff "on faith" when they have given you noreason to have faith in anything they say.
Make him prove it.
I'm going to wait a couple of weeks, since they are at yet another assembly this weekend. My mom is coming for a two day visit next weekend, and I'm not going to rob my kids of a rare time with Grandma. I think she might come as her old self! I'm not going to make any waves until this visit is past.